Getting ready for the new year: foundational thoughts #1

by trey on December 28, 2009

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We’re all newbies at something. Trey Pennington

Sid Philips, the bad boy in Pixar’s original Toy Story, used his size, age and power to mangle dolls, cars and other toys to suit his twisted imagination. Eventually the toys, lead by Woody, summon the courage to confront Sid. As Sid holds Woody firmly in his hand, Woody says, “I’m talking to you, Sid Philips! We don’t like being blown up, Sid. Or smashed, or torn apart.” The other toys gather around Sid for the climactic lines: Woody, “From now on, you must take good care of your toys, because if you don’t, we’ll find out, Sid! We toys can see EVERYTHING!”

The ultimate instruction to Sid fits well for social media enthusiasts moving into a new year with our new toys (on social media, that is): “So play nice!”

2009 saw the explosion of social media use. It also saw the explosion of social media ABuse, too. From politicians practicing the high-art of self-aggrandizement while completely ignoring their constituents, (well, famous actors did that, too, but we expect that from them, right?), to newly self-minted social media experts and gurus chiding others for not using social media “right,” chastisement was in abundant supply.

Yep, I was in the fray, too. Watching politicians, especially elected ones, promote themselves to the abject exclusion of the people they represent made (still makes) me angry. From my personal perspective, their absence on social media would be far more welcome than their abuse of it.

Even so, if social media is anything, it is a platform for individual self-discovery. By necessity, we’re all in different stages of that discovery. Our individual adventures are just that: individual. Seems like adopting the attitude of “charity” would provide the best foundation for getting the most out of our social media adventures in 2010.

We’re all newbies at something. Woody’s advice to Sid clangs in my ears: “So play nice!”

  • birkenbihl
    i also think it is important to let people know you are the new "kid on the block". In luxembourg new drivers must have a large blue L-sign attached to the car, so every one knows, that this driver may do strange things. I have start started at xing and am telling everyone i hve to ask "stupid questions" (we know, there are only stupid answers) and everybody is reacting quite patienty and generously helps me along. I am not sure how the same kind of questinos might have seemed without the additional knowledge that i am just starting out. last: it's easer for woman to ask for help, maybe men might try it a bit more often? most people react kindly when they know we are still in need of their help.
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  • Trey Pennington
    You are so right. I, myself, will have great difficulty tolerating the self-aggrandizing politicians. It's amazing that a group of people who say they're committed to "representing" other people spend most of their efforts building themselves up and begging for more. Though I'll endeavor to be tolerant, they seem to be intolerable.
  • Ian Greenleigh
    While I think you're largely correct with regard to our attitudes about politicians and so-called gurus, I think folks will soon be more open to interacting with the former via new media, while increasingly hostile to and skeptical of the latter. Authenticity and reciprocity will win, no matter who is doing the blogging/tweeting/xyz. Great post, thanks.
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