Social Media Wisdom from Unexpected Philosophers

by trey on February 3, 2010

“Why did you do that?!” How many times did YOUR mother ask you that one?

Getting to the “why” is a fascinating journey. What drives human behavior? is a question every marketing pro contemplates. It’s a practical AND philosophical question. Philosophy is cool. This year I’m reading a couple of mind stretching philosophers from a long, long time ago (David Hume, the Scottish Skeptic, and Immanuel Kant, the transcendental idealist).

A couple of not-so-long-ago philosopher’s have popped up on my computer screen this year. These two are probably more accessible to the modern thinker than Hume and Kant. You might know them as entertainers—they are that AND much, much more.

MODERN PHILOSOPHER #1: Will Smith (yep, THAT Will Smith)

MODERN PHILOSOPHYER #2: Jay Smooth

Having trouble getting stuff done? Got 25 browser windows open and calling it work? Here’s some “self talk” to get you going.

Both of our modern philosophers cut through the clutter, the psychobabble and flush out essential truth: “If you’re not making somebody’s life better, you’re wasting your time,” from Will Smith, and the “traps” one’s “little hater” sets up to prevent true accomplishment from Jay Smooth give us plenty to ponder regarding others and ourselves.

Ponder a while, and then come back to social media: How are you using social media to make somebody’s life better; how are you dealing with your own “little hater” standing in the way of living out your passion?

Update: Jay Smooth’s video is worth the watch if you’re a creative or entrepreneur. He reminded me once again how our own internal voice, the “little hater,” is often our only obstacle to success. Sometimes that harsh-self-judging voice paralyzes us and keeps us from just doing that something we know we really need to do. Yes, sometimes people ARE going to laugh, judge, criticize, but that’s okay. Let the passion out to kill perfectionism and procrastination and, as Nike says, “Just do it!”

  • Ivana Sendecka
    Trey,
    super cool post!;-)
    what a great RSS food for soul after one week offline by YOU!
    I have favourtied both videos and now following Jay as well!;-)
    grateful
    ;-)
  • Alastair Banks
    Trey I love the Jay Smooth Video - My little hater definately holds me back sometimes and yes I quite often find myself with those 25 browser windows open and going home to tell my partner I've had a ridiculously busy day! I've started to work on the little things that help us procrastinate like turning off all auto alerts and setting aside times of the day to email and play with my social media channels. It's definately working. See you later this month my friend :)
  • Tink
    Trey, did you write this post JUST FOR ME??? I will use Will's will to cut through all the fluff I'm weighing things down with, keeping me away from the "unrealistic" dreams I truly have. And Jay must be listening to my mind every single morning! My little haters are just vicious. Thanks so much for posting this.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thanks Alex. 2010 is the year for Twitter friend to in-person meetups for sure.
     
    Thanks, too, for sharing your Year 1, 2, 3 outline for making a difference. I'm hoping others will buy into the thinking behind it.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you for dropping by Robin. Your concept of "an enabler of humanity on a global scale" has given me something to ponder over the weekend. Wonderful motif.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you Khris. You're incredible. Sending you an email with contact data now.(tweeted about you this morning)
  • Khris Loux
    Hi Trey,

    The comments seem to work for me now.  I will have an engineer look at the site asap. Please email me directly khris@js-kit.com so we can speak directly about any issues we find.

    Thank you!
  • Khris Loux
    Hi
  • alexkaris
    Trey My Brother!!  Loved that post and man those words & videos ring so true for so many people out there working the life of the solopreneur.  Definitely tough at times when your hanging behind the keyboard...I think far too often people go for the instant gratification rather than the long term legacy of making a diffference.  I have been observing the social media space about as long as you have..I can kind sum up year 1 - Amazement & Curiousity Year 2 - "Holy Crap these people actually care about me"  Year 3 - Harnessing the Power, Influence & Technology to build businesses that make a difference!! 

    Reminds of something I tweeted earlier today "A Healthy Mind Focuses on "What" and "How" and leaves "Why" to the pyschology profession.  I think far too often we ask the "why" question which usually only creates circular thinking or expands on whats already wrong.  Anyway...Loved the post.  Cheers to a Highly Productive 2010 and Perhaps we will rendevouz in a nearby city soon!

    All my Best..Alex
  • Robin Dickinson
    Hey Trey,

    Social Media is a life enhancer.  It's a way of breathing out acknowledgement, encouragement and support to real people - real souls, like Amy Wood, Russell Tripp, Michele Price and the many others who have commented on this post.

    Social Media is an enabler of humanity on a global scale.  It traverses geographic, time and language boundaries to connect minds, hearts and resources.

    Social Media puts unprecedented power at the fingertips of many to 'help others help others' - to amplify and magnify the ripples of knowledge, wisdom and information into waves of value and practical help.

    Yes, for me, Social Media is the bridge that moves us beyond the 'inspiration' of self to become the tailwind of 'exhalation' for others.

    And regarding the second part of your question: I know of no 'little haters' standing in the way of living out my passion.

    Best to you, Trey.

    Robin :)
  • Trey Pennington
    Now I'm going to have to go look that word up!
  • Trey Pennington
    Thanks for stopping by. You certainly are one making lives in the Upstate better. You've done a great job making "the news" feel like "our news."
  • Russell Tripp
    That's a great question to ask ourselves every day - "Who have you validated today?"  I need to put that somewhere I'll see it every day to keep it in mind.  Thanks for that.
  • Amy Wood
    I am a just do it kind of gal and really enjoyed this post Trey.  Thanks for the reminder to work for that essential goal of making life/lives better around us.
  • Russell Tripp
    You know me - such a hypercoin is just my speed. 

    Don't know about great wisdom, but I could spend all day discussing perception, reality, potential (and wave-form collapse) - but I won't. ;-)
  • Trey Pennington
    Thanks Russell. 

    Very good question: "How do we convince others…?" Probably like the proverbial two-side-of-a-coin: 1. the me and the you sides. 2. my belief and your worldview. 3. my understanding of your understanding. (that's an incredibly multi-faceted coin, huh?)

    Probably some great wisdom in the "heightened perception of a future reality."
  • Trey Pennington
    You met Will Smith? Wow. That's cool. 

    I'm hoping to meet up with that Alex Karis this year, even if I have to make a trip to Paradise Island just to see him!
  • Russell Tripp
    Laying one brick at a time - something all of us need to keep in mind.  Put one foot in front of the other....
     
    I've always admired Will Smith and seeing a collection of his thoughts grouped together like this increases that admiration.
     
    "You have to believe that something different than what has happened.... You have to believe that something different can happen."  The key to all progress.  And here, believing is more than thinking it is possible - it's knowing that it will happen - and that you will make it happen.  
     
    My question is - how do we convince others that it will happen?  Do we simply have to believe it ourselves enough (or fully - if there's an upper limit to believing something)?  Does what needs to be done to get others on board with our ideas - the change that we can make in the world - flow naturally from intense belief in those ideas or are there some steps that must be taken separately from what I like to think of as a heightened perception of a future reality - that are related to, but don't necessarily come intrinsically entwined with that belief in this idea?
  • Michele Price
    Trey I was lucky enough to meet Will when I lived in Philly.  Very grounded andasy to be around.

    Found out later why my ex use to put me in charge of celebrity engagement.  They all use to say things like "She treats us like one fo the normal people"  Funny I always thought they were one of the normal people.

    Been blessed to focus on mindset for 25= years, has it always been EASY Frack no, AND it has made me who I am so I can benefit who comes into my world.

    That is why I tweet all the time "Who have you validated today?"

    So to answer your qeustion I use social media to remind sometimes loveingly other times with a whack up side the head "what result are you enducing or contributing to?"

    Just liked being blessed that Alex Karis introduced us.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you Amy. Thanks, too, for arranging the conference call today for the Social CMO contributors. It was fun to "meet" everyone.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you for sharing this post with your followers.
  • Trey Pennington
    Sorry we had link issues earlier. Thank you for coming back to read and comment!

    "Touching every human being" is now something we all can do. If Will Smith doesn't mind, I'd love to adopt his quote as my life motto: "If you're not making somebody's life better, you're wasting your time."
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you for sharing.
  • Karima-Catherine
    Trey,
    this is a fantastic post that is both inspirational and rooted in our reality.  It shows that, in all of us, lies the seeds to live to our full potential.  All in all, we are our worst enemy. I also find interesting the way you tie in the relation to social media.  Social media is proving that it is not only touching the business world but also every human being in a very drastic way.

    thank you so much for sharing your insights with us 
  • Trey Pennington
    Thanks Michelle. Sure did enjoy our interview yesterday. 

    Thanks, too, for pointing me to Jay Smooth!
  • Trey Pennington
    Thanks. That IS the question, isn't it? "What REALLY matters?" Nail THAT question and everything else falls into place.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you Jessica. Starting your own business WAS a scary thing to do, especially any time during the last two years!

    I'm hoping your no-nonsense optimism catches on!
  • Trey Pennington
    Thanks Dickie. Your "Social Media Train" post is already a classic! You are exactly right: It IS a wonderful life.

    I'm enjoying this journey with you—can't wait to see you again in just a few weeks at Like Minds.
  • Dickie Armour
    Trey,

    WOW!!! " amazing videos - My favourite is the Will Smith one. I was blown away by how much of his video rang true to me. I'm a people's person and I love people with a passion and helping people is what it's all about.

    I love the story about his dad knocking down the brick wall and making Will and his younger brother rebuild it by laying each brick perfectly; one at a time!

    There is no reason to have a Plan B because it just distracts from your Plan A! 

    Let's all stop being realistic!!!

    Your dreams, feelings, ideas, visions are physical - physical thrusts towards realisation. I truly believe this. Thoughts do become things and every physical reality started as an idea in someone's imagination!

    We always tell our daughter that you have to treat people who you want to be treated. I've always been a believer in "What goes around; comes around". So you have to be true to yourself and to others.

    For me the very greatest discovery in 2009 was Twitter and social media! As I said I love people and I love helping people. The surprising aspect of social media that I never expected was how nice and caring people are in general towards each other. 

    I'm really enjoying being able to collaborate and contribute and take part in the many different conversations going on. To be able to help people and share interesting information is so rewarding.

    It's also true for bloggers; blogging and blogs. We are all spending time on each others blogs and we post comments on each others blogs. And in most cases; people's contributions are generous and positive and supportive.

    As James Stewart as George Bailey, in Its a Wonderful Life says "It really is a wonderful life!"

    I love the fact that we're all on this incredible journey together. My word for 2010 is "Serendipity". I love the serendipitous nature of social media. You never know where a new connection may take you. Trey, you and I met and became friends through social media and we've met in person. I am am so grateful and thankful for that.

    In my blog last month I compared our journey to that of a Social Media Train - 

    http://blog.dickiearmour.me.uk/2010/01/social-m...

    and it's an exciting journey. None of us truly know where our destinations lie, but we're all on board and the atmosphere is incredible and we're all having a lot of fun whilst we're helping each other and sharing ideas. 

    I'll see you in the buffet car! Mine's a Gin and Tonic. ;-)
  • Jessica @GlassHalfFullPR
    "Being realistic is the most commonly traveled road to mediocracy" Boom!  There it is. Its that no-nonsense quote you know you live by but until you hear it from someone else it never really stuck.     Back a long, long time ago (March 09) when I decided to venture out on my own.  I wanted to build a brand for my venture that got people thinking.  Something positive (because you know we needed it then, as we still do now) something no one has done before (hence the non-mediocracy) and that is where Glass Half Full (@glasshalffullpr) came into fruition.     Behind all that was my determination to help others see the glass as half full.  As I say on the front page of my web site:  "If you don't see the glass as half full, you have already failed.  And we mean that."   Its that no-nonsense yet optimistic attitude that pushes me to push others.   And yet, I think my "little hater" has gotten somewhat of the best of me in the last few months. So I have to say after this post I'm inspired and ready to push him to the side again.  Thank you!    This post was rockin'
  • Anonymous
    Fodder worthy of our time, Trey. Lately, I've been exploring the question, "what really matters?"  One answer, whether at work or play, is captured in Smith's suggestion. Another piece of accessible philosophy from the 60's puts it this way: "In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." 
  • Michelle C
    I hadn't seen the Will Smith video yet.
    "Greatness is not this wonderful, esoteric, elusive, God-like feature that only the special among us will ever taste. It's something that truly exists in all of us." -Will
    Amen. Everyone has something creative in them that is just theirs, and networking, online or off, helps us meet people that help us develop that part of ourselves
    As for Jay, I'm always a fan :)
  • Trey Pennington
    "Giving for the sake of giving," is a great way to live.

    Sounds like you've got a book inside of you! Dealing with one's "no you can't" voices inside the head takes a lot of energy!

    I'm so looking forward to meeting you in the real world at Bob Burg and Thom Scott's Extreme Business Makeover with Zig Ziglar in Orlando.
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you James.

    Hey, congrats on the high placement on the Shorty Awards!
  • JamesAkersJr
    Great blog post Trey.  Both videos were very inspiring! 
  • Trey Pennington
    Thank you Kathy. You are an inspiration.
  • Rebel Brown
    Hey Trey

    Ya know, I've loved Will Smith forever - he has such a great outlook on life and the pursuit.  Jay Smooth is a new one for me - so thanks for the introduction.

    Giving for the sake of giving is the best way to live our lives. We share an intention that is focused on abundance for all - and we receive what we give.  That's so different from the world today with so many out for their own comfort regardless of the impact on the environment, our country, other people.  If we could all live as givers focused on making others' lives better - think how ALL our lives would change - toward limitless abundance!

    As for that hater within - I've spent the last 30 something years digging into that side of me. It's amazing how much power our subconcious can have over our lives.  I personally had a deeply buried hater  - a result of some ugly childhood trauma that I buried beyond memory for over 40 years.  WOW.  Once I brought that hater into the light - everything in my life changed. My 'scary voices' went away  - and evn though it was lonely for a while in my brain - I love it now! I'm on the path to the life of my dreams and loving every minute of it.

    Thx for sharing!

    reb
  • Kathy Snavely
    Wow, Trey!  This is a whole, new creative spin - leave it to you!!  Can't wait to share this with my students!  You always make me think.  Thank YOU!
  • Trey Pennington
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